Sunday, 1 May 2016

Stella Damasus says she is not a husband snatcher but...







It is no longer news that beautiful Nollywood actress cum singer, Stella Damasus has been living with Daniel Ademinokan in the United States of America for sometimes. For those who don't know,Daniel Ademinokan is the erstwhile husband of another nollywood actress,Doris Simeon.The one time celebrated relationship produced a boy.

For years, Stella's friends,colleagues and fans avoided her like plague because they couldn't confront her and others who could, only call her out on different social media platforms to express their opinion.She has lived with the name "husband snatcher" for years but little or nothing has been heard from the light complexioned mother of two who seems unperturbed.
But recently,she wrote, “I have kept mum on the allegation until now and I feel it’s time I expressed myself.”One of the comments I have seen consistently, over and over again is, ‘Stella snatches somebody’s husband’; ‘Stella the husband snatcher’; which is what has been going on.


“And I had sworn that I would never talk about it or even listen or stress myself about the issue. But I have decided to talk about it now, so that I end it once and for all’, she said.“How is it possible to go to somebody’s home, take a happily married man, take his son away from his home and say follow me.

“Let’s assume you are a man, and according to their story, he is happily married inside his home with his family complete, and I walk into that home to forcefully take a man, able-bodied man, and a kid, away from somebody’s hand and you are there looking at me.
“So, logically, if people actually sit down and think about it intelligently, how do you snatch somebody from somebody and the person is there looking at you? “So when you see a man who has settled ties with a woman and decides to move on with his life and you feel that there is something in this man that you like and he likes you, is there a problem there?
“I am not a kid. I am 38 years old. I am not about to start hiding myself’ she said.

But I remember vividly years ago when she and the same ex husband of Doris simeon, Daniel sauntered into one of the indoor halls of Lagos Television, the venue where one of Nigeria's earliest quitessential journalist, Femi Akintunde Johnson popularly known as FAJ was having his birthday and book launching. This was way before the relationship between Doris and Daniel crashed like a pack of badly arranged cards
Yours sincerely almost asked where and when the friendship started because I couldn't really place them together.But as time evolved, "we" learnt they were working as "partners" on something related to business.

Fast forward to 2016,Stella and Daniel are still business partners




When dearest "Cuz" said I Do!









...How she became Mrs Olalekan

Enjoy the bride's story.

I met the love of my life, Olawale Sabur Olalekan on Facebook in June 2011. Getting a preferable girl of his tribe and religion in Abuja where he lives seemed a difficult task.He explained that one fateful day he made up his mind to search Facebook for a girl and the first name that crossed his mind was  "Fatima".

 I was the first "Fatima" at the top because we had 2 mutual friends, one of our mutual friends was his former hostel mate in Olabisi Onabanjo University(OOU), Pharm Funmi Adeleke who happens to be a school daughter to my elder sister while in OOU,she is more of a family friend to us. In fact,she met her hubby through my sister.

Hardly do I accept request from people i don't know on FB, so I couldn't fathom till date how we became friends .To cut the long story short anytime he sees me online he would ask for number but I refused.
 But one day he sent " I SWEAR BY THE NAME OF ALMIGHTY ALLAH I HAVE GOOD INTENTIONS" and I laughed.

Though it seemed funny but that was the first time I really noticed him. I checked his profile picture but it wasn't clear thus couldn't place his face. We had been chatting for a long time but I never noticed because he wasn't the only male asking for my number.

  Pharm. Funmi tried convincing me to give him a chance that he is a good person but I told her about my relationship so she advised I tell him and I did. But to my utter most surprise he said that shouldn't stop us from being friends and so we exchange numbers.
 We got talking and I asked about his relationship status and he explained what transpired between his last girlfriend. I appreciate the fact that he never lied.